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Hello and welcome to my website. My name is Mistress Katya Von Calder and I am not your average Dominatrix.
First, I need to inform you that I am a real Dominant, not someone who pretends to be a Dominatrix. This is not a role for me. This is who I am and what I do. This is the most important thing you need to know about me. If you do not know what a Dominatrix is, then I urge you to look it up first as I may or may not be the person you want to see.
With that being said, I will spare you the standard cookie cutter biography and instead, give you the honest facts about who I am.
I am An Independent Professional Domina with over 12 years experience doing what I do best-being in control. I am a rubberist, latex fetishist, a sadist, a leatherist, a sensualist, a disciplinarian, a humiliatrix, but most of all, I am a Dominatrix. This is who I am and this will never change.
I come from the "middle school" of Domination (circa 2000), where protocol was still followed and respect was always given. Manners were a requirement in order to contact a Domme and you actually "served" a Dominatrix, not the other way around. You seen a Dominatrix for her skill, her expertise and her personality. You took the time because you knew once you met, your body and mind would instantly conceed to her. You surrendered..and rightfully so.
I still hold that belief of total surrender in each session that I conduct. I still believe in protocol and manners. I believe in taking the time to know my submissive, to know his enjoyments, his limits and to push them. I have a passion for it. I love it. I may be very straightforth and firm with my requirements but in session, I prefer to laugh, smile and enjoy myself as I torment you to my heart's delight.
of this, my sessions run the gamut with emotion, variety and depth-from
mild and playful to strict and intense. I consider myself a Sensual
Sadist as I walk the line between sensuality and pain. I have a unique
philosophy on pleasure and pain that I enjoy showing to the right
individual. It will make you appreciate the reward of pleasure that is
to come once you take the pain for my enjoyment.
am currently accepting the submission of polite and respectful
submissives, bottoms, slaves, fetishists, kinksters and novices who wish
to explore all that BDSM has to offer and wish to push their boundaries
with an real and experienced Dominant. I conduct my sessions two studio
locations-my private studio located in Northern New Jersey and in
Midtown, Manhattan. Both locations are easily accessible from major
My session interests can be found in the Sessionsection of my website.
For more information regarding me and my sessions, please read the rest
of my website by clicking the pages above. In the meantime, enjoy my
site and I look forward to having you at my feet....where you belong.