Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Where are you located?

A: I session at two locations-Northern New Jersey and Midtown, NYC.

Q: How do I schedule an appointment?
A: 1)  Please read my website completely to see if we are compatible with our interests.
2) When you are ready to meet, read the Quick Facts page
3) Complete the submission form. Be thorough and respectful in completing it.
4) Please be patient and allow 24-48 hours for a response back.  We will then arrange a day and time to meet

*A non-refundable deposit is required for all first time appointments and will be reflective towards the tribute
.
*Please note that 24 hour advance notice is required for scheduling of all sessions.


 Q: What is your tribute?
A: My tribute is the standard for an experienced and independent NYC/NJ Dominatrix.
 Tribute can be discussed once we are ready to meet.


Q: Why do you require a deposit for your sessions? Why can't I give you some references?
A:  I request a deposit for all first time sessions because my time is very valuable and I want to make sure that you will actually show up for your scheduled session.  I no longer accept references as a form of verification for two reasons 1) Not every Domme will respond to a referral request and 2) guys lie about who they see and I cannot spend my time chasing after fake references.

The bottom line is that some Dommes are not willing to assist a client find another Domme to session with and some guys are not willing to be honest about their experience.

Deposit options will be discussed after I review your submission form and determine if we are compatible in interests.


 Q: How do I make a deposit?

A:  If a deposit is required, I will contact you about your available options via email.

Q: How do you dress in your sessions? Can I request an outfit?
A: I am a latex and leather fetishist so I am clothed in either medium unless requested otherwise.

A good reference to my style of dress can be displayed in my photos. I will take your wardrobe request into consideration but please keep in mind that I am always fully clothed so do not request for anything that is not currently displayed in my photos such as being scantily clad or walking around in just a thong and nothing else. 

Q: What is the "NO" list?
These are activities that do not interest me in any way.

I do not do the following:
adult babies
anything ending in the word "job"

Forced-bi
full toilet

genital worship/oral sex
nude face sitting/nude sessions
race play
switch sessions
sex/GFE


Q: How do you clean your gear?
A: All of my items are cleaned before use and after use with hospital grade disinfectant that comply with OSHA Blood borne Pathogen Standards. All surgical steel items are autoclaved before and after each use. Some items will not be used more then once and are disposable. Your safety (and mine) are of the utmost importance.

Q: Do you offer webcam and phone sessions?
A: Yes, I do.  Please see the Remote Training section to schedule a webcam 

 Q: Are you looking for personal slaves/video slaves?

A: No, I am not. There is no reading between the lines on this.

Q: How do I contact you?
A: Complete the Submission Form
General inquiries can be sent to my email address, MistressKatya(at)RubberDomme.com